To Be Faithful is not so Easy..

Most of us who want to remain clean in this world make up their mind to remain faithful.during span of their life..whether a man or a woman..But destiny shows its colors and most of us fail to stick to this aim..by one reason or other. The types of cases may be different..friend,family,Boss,Religion,caste,Profession,country.The reasons effecting us are mostly

Adverse nature,lack of understanding and flexibility,being fade up, change in habits and nature..due to excess burden in life..or health problems.Freedom of movement,co-education,Job situation with opposite sex, exploitation,greed and Advance Aim for quick development or promotion in life.and in the last bad company and literature through Television, movies,and novels.

I have met many people who fear God..are an exception..and they try to pass a stainless life.

some people are not faithful to their health..and ruin their golden being in overdose of sex, Liquor,and other addictions.They think they are Masters of their own and have every right to do what they want.I wonder..why they forget their are certain formats we are bound to maintain for fulfilling the promises we make with our self….only some dedication and will power is lacking.

We should keep in our mind one person in family who is not a faithful member drags whole family in darkness and doom.

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Luck is Everywhere…..

Many people who are very rich..or actors..or players..or artists..or Doctors..or Engineers..who stand in the list of celebrities may often declare that the key of their success in their life is their hard work..some say it as a grace of God along with it.I meet so many people. so in this context i  thought very much..and came to the conclusion.that Hard work is essential in life primarily but piece of luck is required to get desired results from that.Regarding hard work a grass cutter or a gardener works very hard for the day gets a few dollars as his labor income..while a diamond cutter gets many times more than him with a less effort.There are so many Doctors who practice..but some become famous..and we see lines of people outside their clinics..so in every field this we see…luck is everywhere..which is not in our hands..It is doing of God who decides to materialise our hard work..by way of good luck..or bad luck.Due to luck there are so many people poor, so many rich..I think cream of our luck is in the hands of God..so we should worship Him and pray always at his feet for Good result of our hard work.

Our Eating and sleeping habits..

Long time ago as you know my single friend who migrated to U.S.A..told me that American children..and residents are given all Important knowledge about their body..and life line.They calculate calories..and maintain necessary level of fat in the body.But I think this is not true now..most of  us have no time to care for our health..or food we are eating is fast or junk food..which increases

fat and pave the path for overweight, Blood pressure, Sugar, Thyroid,cancer..they are family of desease..If you have one you are prone to others sooner or latter if you are lazy..to take up treatment.

I am a vegetarian..i know the benefit of it..This food is cheap..and organic properties in it.It has plenty of vitamins needed by our body..and minerals too..if supported by fruit juices, salad,and soups.

The people who are Non vegetarian..using Fish, shrimp,goat, pig..or animal meat have following disadvantage..It costs more,it is heavy for body and stomach in terms of digestion power of a man..you do not know whether it is contaminated..or fresh..as it comes from Deep Freezers..It takes more time to get cooked..and more expertise needed.

Some people say that they get energy more by Non Veg.food…Then what do you think about an Elephant..who has got so much power..and a Horse..After whom we say Horse power are vegetarians.

After food other controlling power for our health is our sleeping habit..It is a saying..old saying…

“Early to bed..and early to Rise..makes a man..”Healthy  Wealthy and Wise.”

Following the western culture now a days people sleep late in night and wake up at 10 am..or so on.

This is also so harmful for our body..we have very less idea..I am not an expert of the subject but have personal experience.I have been benefited by rise early from the bed..It gives me pleasure..and happiness to rise early. so I want friends..you may think on this tip..and try for once..if find it true…..see you next time dear friends..It is too cold now..snowfalls..so bye.Take care..

If anyone says you something..

If anyone says to me, you or us.something.we should try to hear him/her with patience and respect and desire to know something useful sentence..which can… may be.. change the course of our life if that relates to be good..correct thing..I will not plead wrong things to follow  from others ..choose what is right thing..avoid what is wrong your inner mind judges for you.You can analyse by pondering over his saying three times within you then come to conclusion whether he is right or wrong for you.This case should be applicable irrespective of the class of that person..above you..or at par with you..or below your class.He may be a labor class, he may be a beggar..or a villager.some people interrupt you in the middle of talk..and say ..ohh..that i already know..i knew that..thanks for advice..friends..so please this is my request..not an order..so when i was talking about A man Versus a woman..I wanted..to see that a woman should be on the top of our society..because she is a mother. who gives birth to us..and opens the gates of heaven for us..because The Man is Next to God..that comes to existence with the help of a woman..

A woman beggar came at my door..with a child..she was young strong. I stared at her in anguish.then said her..when she is fit for work..why she she is begging door to door..why she does not work and  achieve respect in life and society..she seemed to be ashamed..yet i gave her what i had to give..may hope a sentence of mine may change her life who knows..And there are very beautiful women, and girls..they turn to be prostitutes, and endanger their valuable lives..to unsocial elements..when go on dating at cost..we read in news papers i think daily such a girl has to die..or commit suicide..and the number is on the rise.The girls who are prostitutes..suffer from many problems of health..and in their old age…have to pay heavily on medical bills..what they earned have to lose..no body comes before them  at hour of distress..Why chose such path..a single girl if does Job..or work can earn a lot of money, happiness and satisfaction than a girl who is a street beggar or a pro.And when their parents were saying them(to their children) ..they were not listening many years ago..because they were full to the brim of youth,,and ha..ha..life.They were blind to see.. and deaf to hear that saying  pointing at them.so..smile now please..i have to go now..

A Man versus a woman..3

As per expectations I got objections from some readers that i was harsh on women. And i had to give explaination in my last blog and tried to clear my position. Actually a woman is internationally accepted as an angel..mother who gave birth to so many celebrities..and everyone should have soft corner for them and they should enjoy plus points than a Man.My little effort here is to say that a woman enjoys such privilege due to sacrifice made in ancient time. when a woman made herself. Thank you prisoner in her house and did domestic work  and looked after her family children and elders. A few were exception and did job or business for livelihood.But time has changed..woman has got good freedom..or free hand in every aspect of her life..viz. education,career, marriage or say friendship..in her life. They have been granted good independence by Man community.Now the problem arised when a woman began to take undue advantage of this fascility..this is case of woman who is on wrong foot..this is not for all women..I feel sorry for who do not care for their families, friends, career..or  even God. In this age woman has got many Legal powers..that no body can dare torture a woman..a few cases may be exception. so I strongly appeal to woman community to think of them, their reputation, their parents or families and bring a good name to woman community. I do not want that anybody should say that this or that woman is bad. I know when a man or a woman is wrong they say they are right.they can point their finger at me..this has been happening always.i do not take it at my heart thank you.

My Explanation worth reading….

Dear friends i am glad i have completed 25 blogs . To err is human. so I am liable to be excused for anything i wrote may have hurt the sentiments of any reader . Please be sure this may happen unknowingly. for example when i wrote “A Man versus a Woman.” some women may feel odd..so friends today i have this opportunity to submit my Explanation to you..That i am a writer, A commentator,a poet..or  a correspondent..giving you news..as it is..I am not against  a man or a woman..some day i can write about a Man..then i have to describe the story..or facts about them..it is irrespective of any relation to anybody..or to say that I Am not Biased..towards anybody in this world. I Love  everyone in this world whom God has made.I have no right to say ill  about  anyone..or to laugh at  anyone..I am only distributing my knowledge,experiences..or say sharing with public.so please have patience and enjoy the writing..and oblige.The sole purpose is that if something is wrong we may

make correction in our  attitude and pass a happy life in coming future.so friends i shall be  soon back to you with my next episode..till then..enjoy life.Thank you once again for your humble cooperation.

Experience with women….

since my little age..since my maturity 18 years..i have been silently trying to watch opposite sex..i read a lot of literature on women General, Good or bad..or of criminal mind..and i enjoyed it because I think that If i stand on beach of a sea..see the ships sailing in the sea, people swimming in the sea, water ski games,noise of waves,I can not get tired by this..but i can get tired soon if I jump in the sea and begin to swim.We see a movie in the theater but actors who play and take part in it get tired..and bored

sometimes.or always.I have benefited much by doing so..now in this part of my note I describe my experience with women.I have seen a woman who is very simple. Then i have seen a woman who is selfish..Then i have seen a woman who is prepared to do anything if i am obedient to her, I have seen a woman who is talking always sweet before me but criticise me on my back.I have seen a woman who is jealous of my life style and flourish.I have seen a woman who is a slave of her husband, I have seen a woman who is a thief, I have seen a woman who is always demanding anything from anyone when get acqainted..I have seen a woman who is a blabber..and have no control over her mouth. I have no objection for women being all that because I am not a Lord or God. I am telling this how i can decide if i have to select a woman for my life. she  will not tell me that she is this or she is that.I have to be so experienced to look into her eyes and voice and body language to know what qualities she has Got.Only problem is that this is not possible to attain till I am able to get into touch with women..say in locality, Malls,train, cinema halls,business customers, friends and their relatives so it is a totally long procedure yet i have to follow..and that process can be infinite. so not possible till God helps me..hee hee i have to laugh on myself  friends..yet search will be on..bless me.

More in my next..please till then I say  a Good bye.

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