what will happen if we were not selfish…

My house, my money, my estate, my office, my factory, my friend, my wife….my my my..this is mine, that is mine.fans are mine..when we think so many things are mine or ours….I/we have to take their responsibility..and odds..How much enjoyment I/we get with these..is not permanent.

when we complete our college education we dream of a good salaried..Government job..or a packaged salary job..when we get the job..however small or big..we think of becoming a Millionare..as quick as possible..we practice illegal ways to earn the over income..we try to work less and expect more..to fill our coffers.. we think of only ours..and become” selfish..”

we are reading in newspapers daily…that a certain officer,certain minister,was caught by public..or police..for corrupt practices..and scams..their public and social  life is at stake..and risk.

on the other hand if we decide  not to be selfish  we have many reliefs..we get good name,promotions, acqaintance and moreover a good name and self respect.we really get everything

in life..peace of mind..and personal satisfaction.which is an invaluable asset earned in life.

so instead of thinking only of our self..we think of other self..is more rewarding..Please believe me.


Things I saw in my life part-6-

I have cited so many things i saw in my life honestly..but is difficult to describe them systematically date by date..as i never maintained my personal diary up to this day..so please do not take at heart my unskilled..style of a Writer..I had never thought that i shall one day be lucky to have courage to write on a blog site of international level.I shall try to count the things i saw..on a redial mode..

That I was deeply moved by failures of love affairs, when a girl loved her boy friend..surrendered her virginity even to that..even then circumstances and things went array..and those resulted in dissent, unpleasant accidents, commitment of suicide, running away from native place..so it was assumed by my mind that ..it was a complex matter to go near a girl and love her..even when she disclosed she loved me.This made me serious thinker, mature man in little age.My family members parents were religious people..they took me in congregation..of our Spritual Master..or Religious Teacher..in the age of 6 years..I learned many things from my spritual training school..for which i am most grateful to my Gem my spritual Guru..in whose feet i learned to sit at a place for hours..with cool, calm..and attention..2. to be obedient to elders3. Read good and religious literature about God

and knowing about God..in detail. why we came in this world..what we have to do to get to see the God with internal eyes.4.To be vegetarian..and desciplined..and hard worker..and get endurance..

and cleaniness..I do not boast that i possess all these qualities in me..but some percentage i have within me..this i feel within me..and I am satisfied with that percentage in me by My Master’s grace.

These petty changes path of my life very easy..The wheel of my life was moving fast..I have good and bad experiences on the way of it,,I turned a changed man..Sometimes I murmur to myself as follows..That what I am..?”I am not a God..I am not a devil..whatever this world thinksof me.. I am a human.”  “I have good habits..I have bad habits..I have millions of dirty thoughts in me..But some cleaniness is surely therein.” I ama predator at some extent..I am a grand person also..whatever this world thinks of me.”.I am a human’

so dear friends I am going to change my role  from next episode..and I shall try to take some thrilling subjects of life..till then please enjoy life..Thank you..

Things I saw in my life..part5.

I have mostly described things i saw in my life..but counting from my childhood some things i recall which i shall tell you..That most of my relatives kith and kin loved me very much..they liked my simplicity and respect for all.After passing my High school some girls tried to impress me..but i ignored..I saw people living in poverty so i fixed my target in life.I saw many movies, read many novels, struggled and worked hard in my job..I left the job for better prospects..My expenses i kept reasonable..and from savings buyed property for self use..I remained all time vegetarian..I saw many things i described from part 1 to part 4 above in my last blogs.Now i have no aim..i want to pass my life peacefully and select a woman for me..so i describe here..during my quest for a close girl friend i met several girls but no one impressed me..they had shallow love..not deep love..they were selfish, diplomatic..or predators.After certain amount of decency ..they pretended to get ill..or crashed on road..or gave the reference of not their parents but of their grand parents..some said her ex. was coming back to her..I felt that they wanted to enjoy money from their boy friends..some changed their profile names..(How Funny)..now i am well experienced..and do not intend to fall a prey to such girls..Actually i shall presume that such internet friendship between a boy and a girl is play” only.or say a game they play.The most complicated job in a mans life is select a woman for him.During my this quest many boys told me their stories which i shall try to tell you..sooner or latter..but today I am feeling sad..so my dear..i shall see you soon..till then bye..take care.

Things i saw in my life..part-4-.

Near my house a cyber cafe was opened by the elder son of a Government officer..The boy had passed graduation.His father buyed a large office cum residence in 5000sq.feet on main road to establish his career.The boy was well mannered, cool..and charming. At that time trend of computers and cybercafe had just began and i had to go to his cyber cafe for my computer work..After a year when I bought my own computer I did not go at his cafe.

After a lapse of another six months I heard that the guy had committed suicide.Alas what a tragedy..?But why..? when i enquired from his friends the reality came as under..:-

During his spare time he chatted with online girl friend..she belonged to Japan..he belonged to India..Love level raised up intimate between them..since the boy was single and bachelor..but girl was married and had a few children..she was also in deep love with him..when he proposed her to marry with him..she refused her on the ground that she could not leave Japan for the sake of her upcoming kids..as she also loved them so much.That lover boy..got tense..fall a prey to depression…day and night began smoking..without disclosing the facts to his parents or brother..and other members of his family..and he gave ultimatum to his girl friend if she does not marry him he will hang himself..In anger the girl said he can do what he likes but she can not marry him. The boy hanged himself in the room of his office from a ceiling fan with a rope..and ended his brilliant life without a good cause.

we can imagine what was the condition of his old parents and family members on seeing the corpse of their young boy..All their hopes in him shattered in a cruel manner.The cyber cafe got closed up..and so much financial loss and humility served on family members..The guy should have thought about Parents.brothers ..sister..also..but No..this generation is not bound to do mercy with their well wishers…It is my opinion friendship via internet has to be more reliable yet..hmmm..

o.k. friends see you next time..bye..till then..

Things I saw in my life..part-3-.

Though i am very young..but from childhood I have habits of watching every thing around me closely and to the best possible attention.People, friends, relatives, teachers,girl friends, their parents,movies, novels.Up to level of high school I had enough of them..I  used to go to town hall after my school. play carom board..and read as many books as possible.Then i was fond of thrillers..like Phantom..his profile..photo..and friend king of Wombessy..His trade mark ring of three skeletons..his powerful fists..and horse and dog..I liked his costume more when he was in an overcoat and black goggles before his enemies..aah..climate around me became full of suspense..and a fresh wave of thrill danced within my nerves..I wanted if i could be that with beautiful Diana Palmer as my Girl friend..how funny..!!I can not forget African King of very short height..round shape skirt of leaves..and head Gear and sparrow in his hand..aah..fantastic. Then my next choice was Mandrake The great Magician..Sherlock Holmes..and ..Perry mason..etc.Before High school i saw a single movie in city theater whose ticket i won from a friend in a bet. But after High school during college and after that in six years i saw  about 400 movies.And knew much about this world..love and sex also.After this my liking for movies decreased..and i am content with this..because i know excess of everything is bad…so my scholar friends..how was that..? o.k. I love you..today when i think of my childhood..I love All..and its creator The God..above all.And thank him for a cheerful life..Join you soon again..till then..enjoy life..

Things i saw in my Life..part-2-

Dear friends, In this world we see around us many things but some of them leave  memories about them behind in our heart.This is just about me..It is about Love affairs and latter about internet friends..Regarding love affairs the most dreadful real story before me came when i was in my High school standard.In our farthest relation there were a old couple who had a son..son was a gentleman , personality holder,cute and about 6 ft in height with excellent health.They had a large building near our house in which they resided. They raised vacant portion of building say second floor on rent. Their tenant had a young daughter..After some time we saw that boy whose name was Mike..was going  along with that tenant girl on a evening walk in the nearby garden..when i saw them many times together i asked my mom..what was the matter..between them..?My mom replied they had just a brother/sister relation this they were telling to their parents so no one had objection.

Boy Mike was a law graduate and practicing in local court..girl Merry was in final year of MBBS means she was doing  Doctors course.We forgot about them..then after a long time i saw that boy..so depressed and dumb..in very dirty cloths..moving on the road..and streets.I was shocked and enquired from my elders what had happened to the lad..who was very jolly up to yesterday had lost his smile..and looking so gloomy and helpless.I was told that one day he lost the balance of his mind when girl refused to go with him as her parents did not allow her..and he was crying..”baby you loved me and promised me to marry..and now how can you break your promise and betray me..?”

Old parents of the boy Mike were  weeping and crying .they lost their worthy and valuable son..For many months the boy named Mike was visible to us ..in bad then worst condition ..then one day he disappeared from the city..and vanished..Despite many newspaper announcements there was no trace of Mike..old parents of Mike wept day and night for him and became blind..and died in trauma and deep anguish…This thing i saw ..i promised with me i shall never believe a girl who says me.”.Darling..I ..Love..You..”until and unless she does not marry me..Therefore  i do not burn my blood in Love affairs..for which i have no regrets on my decision…O.K. guys..let me say bye to you this time..and see you soon..till then remember me and enjoy life..

Things i saw in my life…

Dear friends I am impressed by interest shown in my small blogs by your goodself. with each blog I am getting a new subscriber and i am more than satisfied with this progress.I know it is very difficult

by subscribers to pay attention to each blogger so even I hardly get time to read except a few but still i shall honestly try to read and like their blogs also please be assured and I thank you again for your cooperation.

I promise I shall write throughout my life till you like it to read.

Today i like to share with you many things which i saw in my life up to this date..this is just a head line the detail i shall not go for the time being.

I saw schoolmates running away from class to watch a movie in city theaters often.

I saw my relative girl writing love letter to a boy and got beaten up by her parents.

I saw my cousin sister reading sex books which she got from his boy friend and her father caught her

took her to terrace of his house where i followed him and witnessed the kicks she received at her waist.

I saw my mothers only brother going against his parents in company of his arrogant wife whom he loved very much.

That brother left his old parents lonely and went to live in the city of his inlaws.

That brother rushed back to his parents when his little only boy was getting spoiled in bad company.

In my locality my chatter friend while standing in street used to make unfair gesture to a spicy girl with curl hair and big eyes when she used to stand before window of her room. He boasted about his story with us..and one day I heard he ran away from city as people beat him severely while in midnight he was trying to get in her room at first floor.

and residents woke up and done the rest with him.

I saw( three times)three different married women well married and living  happily with their spouses ran away leaving their children behind alongwith their new lovers.

I saw a woman having sex relation with her hubby’s manager. she was having two children.  she axed her husband beheaded him while he was deep sleep along with her in bed..then  cut his body in 20 pieces then poured kerosin on the mutilited body in the day light when her children were away at school. But she did not know that on burning human flesh emits unbearable odour..Neighboures when saw the black fumes coming out through house window informed the Local Police.And She and

her paramor are under life imprisonment.Though her husband was a millionare …she got on the wrong foot and made her tiny tots orphans and created problems for them  throughout their life they will live.

My dear friends it is a shocking stuff but true. But showed me the path as follows:

1.I shall not leave my parents whenever i get married.I shall serve them more than i serve my wife.

2.I shall not cross the borders in case of love and sex.

In this way you see life teaches you from what things you see in your life.

I shall continue more next time till then my beautiful friends..you too see things in your life and know thy path finder. with loves..have a nice day and night..!!.

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